Habits Irritate Spouse Q: My spouse has a few irritating habits that haven’t bothered me too much in the past. But this past year, being shut up together so much... I’m about ready to snap. Help! Jim: Nobody can change Jim: Nobody can change someone else -- the only person you can change is ...PLEASE LOG IN FOR PREMIUM CONTENT. Our website requires visitors to log in to view the best local news. Not yet a subscriber? Subscribe today!