The Way I See It

I am sitting here wondering. How did I get here (a retirement home for the aged)? Where is the kid that rode stick horses and ran barefoot in the sand? What happened to the teenager who giggled and flirted. Then there was the young bride so full of her new role trying new recipes copying ideas on decorating from magazines. There was the full-time job of motherhood…children activities galore. There were the friends, couples like we were, work, heartaches, parties, movies, dinners out… dancing…always on the go.


Q: I’ve racked up a fair bit of credit card debt the past few months while unemployed. Now that I’m working again, I have just enough in the bank to cover what I owe. Should I use my savings to pay off my credit card?

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Q: Can you help me deal with the starving, binging and purging problem I’ve had ever since I was a teen? Thoughts of food rarely leave my mind. I’m fixated on my body weight. I feel guilty, shamed and dirty. How can I change?


Q: As a 50-something single woman with no immediate family (I never married), the past few months of forced isolation have really ramped up my concern about how I’ll cope as I age. I worry that no one will be there for me when I’m no longer able to do everything for myself. I don’t want to grow bitter about my circumstances; how can I find peace?

Commemorating America at Mount Rushmore

Last week, I had the opportunity to attend President Trump’s Independence celebration at Mount Rushmore. During this speech, the President stated, “Our Founders launched not only a revolution in government, but a revolution in the pursuit of justice, equality, liberty, and prosperity. No nation has done more to advance the human condition than the United States of America. And no people have done more to promote human progress than the citizens of our great nation.” I appreciate President Trump’s strong remarks.

A New Runway for Offutt

Nebraska is proud to be home to one of our nation’s most strategically important military bases. Offutt Air Force Base lies in Sarpy County and is home to STRATCOM, or United States Strategic Command, which oversees our nation’s nuclear deterrent.


Q: Like a lot of parents, I guess, the shutdown this year has really stretched my wife and me regarding how we each interact with our kids. She tends to emphasize the rules; I’m more easygoing. What’s your preferred approach?

An Opportunity To Innovate

COVID-19 has upended just about every aspect of American life, and small businesses and their employees have been hit hard. Compared to before shutdowns to contain this pandemic began, unemployment rates are up and revenues are down.


Q: My spouse’s substance abuse and drug addiction has had a devastating impact on our marriage and family. I feel as if I’ve just about reached the end of my rope. Help!